So I popped onto my all-to-often neglected website and looked thru my drafted posts, this one was one of few that was actually fully written out, and I don’t know why I wouldn’t have published it sooner.
The biggest way to improve is to be in the game. I have a soft spot for overly cheesy sports analogies, and last week one really stuck out to me:
The only way to hit a homerun is by first swinging for the fences. If you miss, you miss hard, but you’re still swinging.
Also worth noting: I resisted the urge to edit/delete anything below.
Consider a game.
With a game, are you more concerned with winning, or not losing.
There are two ways to not lose.
You can either win — you’ve risked losing in that case.
Or you can simply not play the game… I don’t think ties exist in a game.
But how do you actually benefit from a game?
What outcome allows you to benefit?
Playing the game.
Watching the game doesn’t give you the same learning experience.
It’s safe, you don’t lose. But you also don’t stand to gain anything.
I’ve been a spectator for many things.
Michigan football is one of my favorite past times, I will watch every second of michigan football. But does watching it make me any better of a player? It might make me more aware of a player, but it doesn’t make me any better at playing, throwing, juking.
You can learn the intricacies of things by watching, but the most important skills of actually playing: the actual athleticism, isn’t something you can learn by watching.
You have to do it.
You have to attempt to win.
Here’s the thing, if you’re looking at a game as a learning experience, even losing offers more than losing.
What’s the problem with losing? You don’t get the benefit of winning? Well, you can only win by playing the game.
Lets evaluate what you’re doing. is there more value to you through winning, or is there more value to you by not losing.
There are days I’d rather not lose than win.
I’ll be hanging out with friends, and they’re about to start a game. I’ll politely bow out saying i’d rather watch. it’s hard to argue with it. What do you get with winning? Personal satisfaction/ but also, you’ve gained the skills to the game, the more you play, the better you get.
Any loser of a game will be better equipped to beat the spectators.
It’s my goal to learn the art of not not winning.
Not winning is both doing nothing and losing.
It’s my role not to do either.
It’s all about seizing it.
How does that happen?
But ultimately, you’re owning up to what could happen. You’re facing the fact that it will happen. You’ve entered the game. It’s either win or lose. You’re not a spectator.
How do we get more people into the game.
FIrst you have to define what the game is.
It’s time to go all in.
put your eggs in the basket.
But look at the bright side, if you’re looking for self development, you’ve got this.
I’m right along side you. ready to enter the game.
actually. the game has started.
lets do this!
How do we get into the game.
“We can start a business:
I’m doing that right now with five espressos.
Do I know anything about client acquisition? Nope. But I know a lot about wowing people. And this is going to be a creative way of doing it.
Do I know much about web design? well. … Nope. But man. I know a lot more about it than some people. It’s my job to help those people.
IT”S THAT EASY.”
It’s not about being the best out there.
It’s about being the best to the people that know us.
That’s what success is all about. Find ways to help people. To teach people, to be accessible and help people achieve their goals.
That’s what five espressos is all about. It’s about waking up a part of you that was sleeping. It’s about waking up a part of you that you haven’t explored. It’s about realizing an energy you didn’t know was there.
So that’s what it takes.
this life is all about taking what you know, and putting it out there, you have an audience, and it’s time to learn more about it.
You can teach things to your audience, people beyond you don’t need to care. you aren’t speaking to them,
Do millionaires care much about personal finance blogs, or things worrying about getting out of debt? nope.
Do pro web designers hang around noob forums?
Do pro football players work out with high schoolers?
No, you speak to people at your level,
Maybe even a bit below.
people that will challenge you. to keep ahead, and motivate you by you motivating them.
So huge. this can work.